Rom Comz…I guess at least a third of the films released in cinemas are romantic comedies. Easy, relaxing films to watch, enjoyed by most ladies [actually, by a lot of men too]. Typical storyline, both female and male protagonist goes through a lot, falls in love etc etc and then a happy ending. Danger begins when girls start to EXPECT too much from guys. I swear nowadays girls seem to expect tooooooo much from guys. Yes, I’m talking about 港女 !!! Actually, it’s not really just that…haha just an example.
The difference between REALITY and … NOT!!! In films: the girl keeps bumping into that cute guy like EVERYWHERE she goes. Oh it “MUST BE FATE”.
In reality: they either live in the same area or his route to work each day passes by her route to her destination each day. Now, maybe that’s why the possibility of bumping into each other becomes so high. In films: the girl slips and OH MIRACULOUSLY the guy catches her, spins around and they both freeze with hearts jumping like beans In reality: you fall flat on your face, either you cut your leg, twist your ankle or somehow landed on shit. hAiiii….where’s that man-of-your-dreams when you need him??? In films: she’s pretty but she’s not AMAZING yet she ends up with the “perfect guy”. Kind, loving, caring, doesn’t cheat, does EVRYTHING for her, forgives whatever she does, good looking, and RICH with a nice car, buys her expensive presents, pays for everything and la di da di da… the list goes on… In reality: wake up girls!!! Firstly, most rich guys are so spoilt, they probably won’t even NOTICE most of us. Secondly, this person probably doesn’t exist… EVERYONE has a fault, no-ones perfect so don’t expect that. Also, a nice girlfriend never lets her boyfriend pay for EVERYTHING, have some pride and self respect and pay for yourself for god sake. That’s what I think anyway
hAiiii…the list goes on…but I really can’t be bothered to carry on writing…sometimes I just hate seeing girls expecting soooo much from guys. HELLO, they’re human too. Would you do the same for them. I think girls should carry MONEY. I swear some parents in HK actually TEACH their daughters not to bring a purse when you go out with a guy. Now why did my mum teach me to always bring money, hence why I always do. I feel bad spending people’s money, unless I treat them back too. Girls should feel happy when guys pay for you, don’t just take it for granted!!!!!! If you haven’t found “the one”, either your expectations are too high or maybe it’s not time yet. If you have found someone perfect in your own way, don’t take advantage of him. He must love you a lot to be able to cope with you [us girls are ANNOYING lets be honest]. And if you’re with someone that you don’t think treats you right, maybe you've watched wayyyyy tOo many rom coms, or he’s just an arse ^3^
ANYWAYS, this blOg is welllllll too long and I need to cook again for my dad. Since he wants supper…I guess maybe family and friends are the best!!!! With low expectations yet high rewards.
I love you all!!
Mwah |